The Lighthouse: A safe harbor for your grieving heart

Steady, compassionate support through the ever-changing nature of grief and the complexities of life after partner loss, where your grief and undying love are honored, and your heart is gently tended through every season.

In a world that asks you to hide your grief, The Lighthouse lovingly welcomes it, celebrates your love, and reminds you that you’re never alone. This intimate membership and community is designed exclusively for those who are grieving the love of their life, offering a safe place to be held, heard, and supported as you navigate life after loss with your love and connection to your partner as your compass.

Your grief story is also your love story - The Lighthouse honors both

Your grief, your love, your memories, your heart, your partner - they all belong here.

As a widow myself, I know first hand the profound ache and the aftermath of walking the love of my life to the end of his.

I will personally lead and facilitate every workshop and every group support gathering in The Lighthouse. Your grief is sacred to me and it is my deepest commitment to hold it with care.

Its an honor to go on this journey with you - right beside you every step of the way.

• You are grieving the love of your life - a profound loss that has reshaped everything.

• The world’s pressure to move on feels hollow and doesn’t honor the depth of your love.

• You long for a safe space where your unfiltered grief is truly welcome, and where you can learn valuable practices to support yourself and integrate your loss into everyday life.

• You crave a space to remember, reflect, honor your partner, the depth of your grief, and the permanence of your love, in ways that feel true to your heart.

• You seek a community that speaks the language of grief - one that understands the silence, the ache, the tenderness, and the uniqueness of widowhood.

You will feel at home here if:

Welcome to your grief’s safe space

The Lighthouse Membership & Community for Partner Loss

$77 per month

(Cancel anytime)

With more personal, affordable and live support each month than I’ve seen offered in most grief support memberships, The Lighthouse is here to hold you steadily and consistently. For less than $20 a week, this quality & heart-centered support includes:

  • Bi-weekly live group support gatherings via Zoom, for compassionate connection and support. For your convenience, each bi-weekly gathering is offered on Wednesdays at both 1PM and 8PM Eastern Time, so you can choose to join whichever time best suits your schedule.

  • The Heartspace Sessions.

    Monthly live workshops designed for heart-centered learning and reflection. You’re welcome to simply observe, listen, and soak it in, or engage in reflection and sharing as you feel called. Recordings are saved in The Lighthouse Workshop Vault so you can revisit or catch up anytime if you cannot attend live.

  • A monthly video resource, personally guided by me, offering practices and teachings to support you in your grief journey. From grounding exercises and reflective practices to nervous system tools and reframing techniques, you’ll gain guidance to soothe, empower, and support you both in grief and in life.

  • Complimentary admission to any future paid online workshop or masterclass I host outside of the membership. As part of my inner circle, when I create something special, you’re automatically included.

  • Exclusive, Private Platform for Our Community.

    You’ll have 24/7 access to a platform just for our membership community—Here, through dedicated chats, you can vent about the hard and tender days, share the comfort and glimmers of lighter days, ask questions, and seek guidance and support from others who truly understand.

  • Monthly Practices & Resources

    A thoughtfully curated collection each month to support your journey:


    Still Ours – A monthly journaling practice to revisit and capture specific memories with your partner, bringing them to life and preserving them on the page and in your heart.

    Let the Music Hold You – Each week, a carefully chosen song will accompany your grief, meeting you exactly where you are emotionally. Let the music speak to you in quiet reflection or move your body to release what words cannot.


    All this and so much more, created with your needs in mind, to help you nurture yourself, your grief, your love, and your ongoing connection to your favorite person.

The Heart Space Sessions

Live, interactive workshops held each month, in a co-created safe, compassionate, and nurturing space. We schedule sessions at different times to accommodate multiple time zones, so everyone has a chance to join live and experience the gift of connection. During each session, you’ll receive guidance and practices to support you in various parts of your grief, and recordings are available if you cannot attend live.

Take a sneak peak at some of the unique workshops you’ll experience in the months ahead

  • Widowhood: The Loss That Touches Everything

    Thursday November 13th, 2025

    7:30PM Eastern NYC Time

    Widowhood is unlike any other loss. Together, we’ll explore the singular ways grief shows up, and you’ll gain practices to anchor into your own unique path - discovering how to honor your own rhythms in grief, and grieve in your own way.

  • The Holidays: Where Love Meets Absence

    Wednesday December 10th, 2025

    6PM Eastern NYC Time

    Holidays can magnify absence and ache. We’ll explore practices for easing triggers, creating new rituals, preserving the ones you wish to keep, and honoring your love as you can move through the season with gentleness.

  • Self-Care in Grief: Essential, Not a luxury

    Wednesday January 14th, 2026

    1PM Eastern NYC Time

    After the holidays, tending to yourself becomes essential. This session will guide you toward small, nourishing practices that sustain your body, mind, and spirit as you enter the new year with ways to care for yourself with compassion.

  • Still Ours: Same Love, New Unfolding

    Wednesday February 11th, 2026

    7PM Eastern NYC Time

    Death does not and cannot do you part. Here, we explore continuing bonds theory and meaningful ways to nurture your undying love, maintain your connection and honor your partner’s memory.

  • What's Wrong With Me? NOTHING

    Wednesday March 11th, 2026

    1PM Eastern NYC Time

    Grief reshapes the mind and body in ways that can feel scary & confusing. This session will normalize the many cognitive changes - and show you how everything is right with you - not wrong.

  • Glimmers: The Light Through The Cracks

    Wednesday April 8th, 2026

    7pm Eastern NYC Time

    Triggers are easy to spot, but glimmers—the small, surprising flashes of joy—can feel harder to hold, sometimes even tangled with guilt. Today, we’ll explore how letting in even the smallest light doesn’t diminish your love or your loss.

  • Anxiety: Your Friend Disguised as Foe

    Tuesday May 12th, 2026

    12PM Eastern NYC Time

    I know it sounds crazy, but your anxiety is really trying to protect you. Tonight, we’ll uncover what’s beneath the surface and learn how to be beside it, tuning into the messages it’s trying to show you.

  • Darker Currents: The Feelings We Hide

    Wednesday June 10th, 2026

    1PM Eastern NYC Time

    Grief can stir jealousy, resentment, rage, and anger—the feelings we’re often too ashamed to name. But here, there’s no shame. Together we’ll bring these hidden emotions to light, honoring them in a safe space where all of it belongs.

As a cherished member of The Lighthouse family, you will gain:

  • A deeper well of self-trust—in your choices, inner knowing, and how you walk forward after your profound loss.

  • A compassionate and nourishing relationship with your grief, your pain, and yourself—rooted in love and truth, not judgment.

  • Practical, lifelong tools & resources empowering you to reclaim your agency, soothe and ground yourself in anxious and overwhelming moments, and make choices from a place of self-compassion rather than fear.

  • A community that becomes chosen family, and an all-in-one refuge where you can both feel deeply supported and learn to integrate practices that sustain you—inside and outside of grief.

  • A clearer vision of your own path, not a prescription of how grief should look, but gentle guidance to move forward in ways that honor both your love and your grief.

  • A knowing in your bones that you never have to choose between living and keeping your person alive, and a profound sense of belonging — to yourself, your story, and others who will witness you with compassion.

  • A renewed capacity to breathe life into your grief, weaving joy, meaning and connection into the lifelong unfolding of your journey—with a heart that feels less alone.

If you are ready to be surrounded by compassionate, deeply loving people who understand, and to be guided by me—up close, present, and wholeheartedly involved—then The Lighthouse - is for you. I will be with you, walking beside you with tenderness, compassion and truth.

If you are ready to tend to your grief with gentleness, reclaim your voice and your agency, honor not only your grief, but your undying love, and discover tools and practices that will serve you for a lifetime, I invite you to join.

A safe space and refuge where you don’t have to pretend or wear any masks, and where both you and your grief are welcome exactly as you are.

You do not have to walk this path alone, love. I would be honored to have you join The Lighthouse family.

I am sending you all of my love,

Katherine 💗