The Lighthouse: A safe harbor for your grieving heart

A year of steady, compassionate support through the ever-changing nature of grief and the complexities of life after partner loss, where your grief and undying love are honored, and your heart is gently tended through every season.

In a world that asks you to hide your grief, The Lighthouse lovingly welcomes it, celebrates your love, and reminds you that you’re never alone. This intimate membership and community is designed exclusively for those who are grieving the love of their life, offering a safe place to be held, heard, and supported as you navigate life after loss with your love and connection to your partner as your compass.

Your grief story is also your love story - The Lighthouse honors both

Your grief, your love, your memories, your heart, your partner - they all belong here.

As a widow myself, I know first hand the profound ache and the aftermath of walking the love of my life to the end of his.

I will personally lead and facilitate every workshop and every group support gathering in The Lighthouse. Your grief is sacred to me and it is my deepest commitment to hold it with care.

Its an honor to go on this journey with you - right beside you every step of the way.

• You are grieving the love of your life - a profound loss that has reshaped everything.

• The world’s pressure to move on feels hollow and doesn’t honor the depth of your love.

• You long for a safe space where your unfiltered grief is truly welcome.

• You crave a space to remember, reflect, honor your partner, the depth of your grief, and the permanence of your love, in ways that feel true to your heart.

• You seek a community that speaks the language of grief - one that understands the silence, the ache, the tenderness, and the uniqueness of widowhood.

You will feel at home here if:

Ways to be held - choose the level of support your heart needs

Tier 1 - Anchored:

Steady, heart-centered support which includes:

  • 24 live biweekly group support gatherings via Zoom throughout the year, for compassionate connection, and heart-centered support.

  • The Heartspace Sessions.

    Monthly live workshops exploring a meaningful theme of the month, designed for heart-centered learning and reflection. Each session invites you to engage in thoughtful discussions, practical insights, and gentle exploration of topics that support your journey through grief and life (if you’re not up for sharing, you are welcome to simply get cozy, sit in, and listen). Recordings are saved in the Workshop Vault for you, so you can revisit or catch up anytime if you cannot attend live.

  • Exclusive, Private Platform for Our Community.

    You’ll have 24/7 access to a platform just for our membership community—a gentle space where your grief is welcome exactly as it is. Here, you can vent about the hard and tender days, share the comfort and glimmers of lighter days, ask questions, and seek guidance and support from others who truly understand. Connection, kindness, and care flow freely in this space, where you are seen, heard, and gently held.

  • Echoes of Us

    Our lived moments with our partner are now finite, but their impact lasts forever. Biweekly, you’ll receive guided journaling prompts that go beyond surface memories—they invite you to revisit both small and big moments, the overlooked details, and the tenderness of everyday life with your partner. These are the memories that don’t always surface on their own. By reliving the feelings, details, and textures of those moments, you’ll capture and preserve them more vividly, bringing them back to life on the page and in your heart.

  • Let The Music Hold You.

    Each week, a carefully chosen song will accompany your grief, meeting you exactly where you are emotionally that week—without confining you to any single feeling or season of grief. Simply let the music speak to you, whether in quiet reflection or by guiding your body to move and release what words cannot. For the days where words fail, music speaks.


    The quiet thread.

    Monthly guided audio meditations, including still meditations for the days you want to silence the outside noise and invite in quiet presence, and walking meditations for the days you prefer to move alongside your grief while taking in the grounding, restorative beauty of nature. Whether your heart and nervous system want to be guided into a gentle, restful state, or your body seeks to be resourced and active through a mindful walk in nature, your grief will be met with both options.

    Choose your payment option:

  • Daytime 1 PM – Pay in Full $1067

    (enjoy 1 complimentary month of support with full payment)

  • Daytime 1 PM – Split Pay (details shown at checkout)

  • Evening 7:30 PM – Pay in Full $1067

  • Evening 7:30 PM – Split Pay (details shown at checkout)

Please note: Once submitted, this payment cannot be refunded. Spaces in The Lighthouse are limited and doors open only once per year. To honor the integrity of the group and ensure a safe, wholehearted experience for everyone, please be certain you’re ready to join. If you have any questions or would like me to clarify anything before you join, please email me at kat@griefembracedwithlove.com—I’d be happy to help you feel fully confident and supported.

Tier 2 - Deeper Dive

Immersive Heart-Centered Support

Tier 2: Deeper Dive includes everything in Tier 1: Anchored

The difference: Instead of 24 live Zoom support group gatherings, you will receive 52 live Zoom support group gatherings—nurturing you with support every week for the entire year!

With the most live support available in any grief support membership, This tier is designed for those whose hearts prefer the deepest, most consistent support and connection.

This tier is also for you if life gets busy, plans change, or your heart needs extra space during weeks that feel heavier than others. With one live Zoom support group gathering every week, you’ll always have the opportunity to join, ensuring you never miss out—even if you can’t make a specific week.

This is the deepest level of support The Lighthouse offers, designed to hold and nurture your grief and your love story throughout the year.

Choose your payment option:

  • Daytime 1 PM – Pay in Full $1859

    (Enjoy one complimentary month of support with full payment)

  • Daytime 1 PM – Split Pay (details shown at checkout)

  • Evening 7:30 PM – Pay in Full ($1859)

  • Evening 7:30 PM – Split Pay (details shown at checkout)

Please note: Once submitted, this payment cannot be refunded. Spaces in The Lighthouse are limited and doors open only once per year, so please be certain you’re ready to join. If you have any questions or would like me to clarify anything before you join, please email me at kat@griefembracedwithlove.com—I’d be happy to help you feel fully confident and supported.



4 weekly live Zoom workshops (60–75 minutes each)

A recording of each session if you can’t attend live

Workshop slides and worksheets to deepen your integration

A compassionate safe space led by someone who is also grieving - still walking it, living it, and holding it, just like you.

A grief-affirming experience that never asks you to move on or let go, but helps you honor the love, the ache, and the ever-changing journey of living with loss.

What you’ll get

Workshop Schedule

Starting August 13, we’ll gather for four Wednesdays of community, centered guided grief support, conversation and reflection - a space to feel seen, heard, and held as you navigate your ongoing grief journey.

  • Wednesday, August 13 – 7:30 pm Eastern Time

  • Wednesday, August 20 – 7:30 p.m Eastern Time

  • Wednesday, August 27 – 6:30 p.m Eastern Time (note earlier time for this date)

  • Wednesday, September 3 – 7:30 p.m Eastern Time

Take a look inside:

These four weeks are an invitation to silence the world and return to yourself—gently, honestly, and without pressure. Each session is rooted in tenderness and truth-telling, offering space to feel, reflect, and remember. You’ll be held inside deep conversations, supportive practices, and heartfelt connection - all while honoring your unique grief story and the continued, unbreakable bond you share with your person.

  • Week 1: Healing Doesn’t Mean Forgetting

     Understanding What Healing Really Is—Inside and Outside of Grief

    • The difference between traditional healing (finite) and grief healing (lifelong)

    • Literal examples: trauma, and the grieving process

    • Why the grief community resists the word “healing”

    • Healing with your person, not without them

    • Why “closure” is a myth in grief—and what to aim for instead.

    → Goal: Release shame around your healing path and begin to redefine what it means for you.

  • Week 2: The Way You Grieve Is the Way You Love

    Discovering Your Grief Style and What Actually Helps You

    • Understanding the main grieving styles

    • Common traits, behaviors, and needs for each style

    • Bringing in the Enneagram in grief: how your core type influences how you mourn, remember, and cope

    • How to stop comparing your grief to others’

    • Personalized tools and language for your style

    → Goal: Build self-compassion and insight into your unique grief experience—no more “shoulds.’

  • Week 3: Life In The Aftermath

    Grief and Identity, Needs, and Values

    • Exploring how grief changes your values, desires, and sense of self

    • Naming what no longer fits—and what you need now

    • How to recognize your needs when all you feel is loss

    • Learning through contrast: what you don’t want vs. what you crave

    • Practices to rebuild self-trust, agency, and clarity

  • Week 4: Your journey, Your way

    Walking forward with sovereignty as you step into your ongoing grief journey.

    • Bringing it all together: what healing means to you, what you need, what works for you

    • Exploring your next right step: community, support, integration practices

    • How to continue grieving in sacred, supported ways

    • The role of choice and boundaries in grief

    → Goal: Leave supported—with next steps that are rooted in your truth, not anyone else’s.

  • Week 1: Healing Doesn’t Mean Forgetting

     Understanding What Healing Really Is—Inside and Outside of Grief

    • The difference between traditional healing (finite) and grief healing (lifelong)

    • Literal examples: trauma, and the grieving process

    • Why the grief community resists the word “healing”

    • Healing with your person, not without them

    • Why “closure” is a myth in grief—and what to aim for instead.

    → Goal: Release shame around your healing path and begin to redefine what it means for you.

  • Week 2: The Way You Grieve Is the Way You Love

    Discovering Your Grief Style and What Actually Helps You

    • Understanding the main grieving styles

    • Common traits, behaviors, and needs for each style

    • Bringing in the Enneagram in grief: how your core type influences how you mourn, remember, and cope

    • How to stop comparing your grief to others’

    • Personalized tools and language for your style

    → Goal: Build self-compassion and insight into your unique grief experience—no more “shoulds.’

  • Week 3: Life In The Aftermath

    Grief and Identity, Needs, and Values

    • Exploring how grief changes your values, desires, and sense of self

    • Naming what no longer fits—and what you need now

    • How to recognize your needs when all you feel is loss

    • Learning through contrast: what you don’t want vs. what you crave

    • Practices to rebuild self-trust, agency, and clarity

  • Week 4: Your journey, Your way

    Walking forward with sovereignty as you step into your ongoing grief journey.

    • Bringing it all together: what healing means to you, what you need, what works for you

    • Exploring your next right step: community, support, integration practices

    • How to continue grieving in sacred, supported ways

    • The role of choice and boundaries in grief

    → Goal: Leave supported—with next steps that are rooted in your truth, not anyone else’s.

  • Week 1: Healing Doesn’t Mean Forgetting

     Understanding What Healing Really Is—Inside and Outside of Grief

    • The difference between traditional healing (finite) and grief healing (lifelong)

    • Literal examples: trauma, and the grieving process

    • Why the grief community resists the word “healing”

    • Healing with your person, not without them

    • Why “closure” is a myth in grief—and what to aim for instead.

    → Goal: Release shame around your healing path and begin to redefine what it means for you.

  • Week 2: The Way You Grieve Is the Way You Love

    Discovering Your Grief Style and What Actually Helps You

    • Understanding the main grieving styles

    • Common traits, behaviors, and needs for each style

    • Bringing in the Enneagram in grief: how your core type influences how you mourn, remember, and cope

    • How to stop comparing your grief to others’

    • Personalized tools and language for your style

    → Goal: Build self-compassion and insight into your unique grief experience—no more “shoulds.’

  • Week 3: Life In The Aftermath

    Grief and Identity, Needs, and Values

    • Exploring how grief changes your values, desires, and sense of self

    • Naming what no longer fits—and what you need now

    • How to recognize your needs when all you feel is loss

    • Learning through contrast: what you don’t want vs. what you crave

    • Practices to rebuild self-trust, agency, and clarity

  • Week 4: Your journey, Your way

    Walking forward with sovereignty as you step into your ongoing grief journey.

    • Bringing it all together: what healing means to you, what you need, what works for you

    • Exploring your next right step: community, support, integration practices

    • How to continue grieving in sacred, supported ways

    • The role of choice and boundaries in grief

    → Goal: Leave supported—with next steps that are rooted in your truth, not anyone else’s.

Ready to Join?

This workshop is completely free, with replays provided for all registered participants.

Whether you attend live or catch the recordings, you’ll be deeply held and fully welcomed. Your grief deserves gentleness. Your healing deserves to be yours.

No fixing. No rushing. No pressure to be anywhere but where you are. Just four weeks of steady, soft-hearted support—a place to feel seen in your sorrow, met in your questions, and reminded that your grief is not a burden to carry, but a truth to honor, a story hold sacred, and a love to embrace.

I am sending you all my love and cant wait to hold space for you as we tenderly redefine healing together 💗